Especially if the associations in the brain happened when they were young, these people often want to change the most, but it seems really helpless. Porn will wreck the arousal process in your brain and end up wrecking your sex life in marriage. A while back I found this amazing black velvet dress with tulle inserts for ten bucks and several people have written and commented on it. Porn has sold them the message: And the root of many of these problems is porn.