So if you already enjoy these feelings of power and pleasure when sucking his cock, this is another reason to take the initiative. Rubbing It In — Another super erotic way to finish off your man when sucking his dick is to have him cum on your breasts or stomach and then start rubbing it and massaging it around your breasts and stomach, putting on a show for your husband. If the idea of submitting to your man turns you on and you know he respects you enough not to go too fast or too deep, then putting your head in his hands can be incredibly erotic, arousing and fun for both of you. With this in mind, here are a few additional ideas you should try when your man climaxes so that sucking his dick becomes a piece of performance art.